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How to say “How long have you known each other?” in French

Ask how long two people have known one another.

Vous vous connaissez depuis combien de temps ?

How long have you known each other?

The construction describes a relationship that began in the past and continues now.

Use it in three situations

  1. Meeting a couple

    Vous vous connaissez depuis combien de temps ?

    How long have you known each other?

  2. Asking about colleagues

    Vous vous connaissez depuis longtemps ?

    Have you known each other for a long time?

  3. Discussing an old friendship

    Où est-ce que vous vous êtes rencontrés ?

    Where did you first meet?

What to watch for

It is different from asking how long they have been in the same room today.

Read the whole expression before replacing a detail. The natural wording may use a different order or construction from the English sentence.

Your turn

Imagine visiting family. Say this in French: Have you known each other for a long time?

Reveal a sample reply

Vous vous connaissez depuis longtemps ?

Have you known each other for a long time?

Build a useful exchange

Thank a host and take part in a family visit.

This expression in other languages

A note on speaking French

Use vous with strangers, staff, and people you address formally; use tu when that relationship is established. Je voudrais and pourriez-vous can make a request considerate. The most appropriate choice depends on the person and the situation.

Keep accents and apostrophes. A familiar spoken expression may differ from its literal English translation. Read the complete line, including the pronoun and the words that connect the request.

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