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Support and boundaries: useful Italian phrases

Show care while being clear about your limits.

Start with the essentials

Start with the essential words and expressions below. Next, learn the five specific phrases in the reference table. Finally, read both sides of the exchange and try the linked rehearsal before revealing its sample replies. This collection connects to the broader vocabulary topic.

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Useful Italian expressions for support and boundaries
What you want to sayItalian
I'm sorry to hear that

mi dispiace sentirlo

I'm sorry to hear that

Are you okay?

Stai bene?

Are you okay?

I agree

sono d'accordo

I agree

Don't worry

non preoccuparti

Don't worry

Would you like to talk about it?

Ti va di parlarne?

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Would you like to talk about it?

I'd prefer not to discuss that.

Preferirei non parlarne.

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I'd prefer not to discuss that.

I see what you mean, but ...

Capisco cosa intendi, ma …

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I see what you mean, but …

I don't feel comfortable with that.

Questa cosa mi mette a disagio.

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I don't feel comfortable with that.

Let me think about it.

Fammi pensarci.

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Let me think about it.

Read the other side of the exchange

  1. Partner

    È stata una settimana difficile, ma non so bene cosa dire.

    I've had a hard week, but I'm not sure what to say.

  2. You

    Ti va di parlarne?

    Would you like to talk about it?

  3. Partner

    Magari più tardi. Posso chiederti perché hai lasciato il tuo ultimo lavoro?

    Maybe later. Can I ask why you left your last job?

  4. You

    Preferirei non parlarne.

    I'd prefer not to discuss that.

Support and boundaries in other languages

A note on speaking Italian

Use tu with friends and Lei with someone you address formally. A request with vorrei or potrebbe can soften the tone; it still helps to say what you need clearly. The examples label the situation so you can choose the appropriate relationship.

Read doubled consonants distinctly and keep the written accents. The English translation explains the intended message; Italian often chooses a different construction rather than matching each English word.

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