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How to say “How do you know ...?” in Italian

Ask about someone's connection to a mutual acquaintance.

Come conosci …?

How do you know …?

Replace the gap with the person's name and use the construction shown in the example.

Use it in three situations

  1. A mutual friend

    Come conosci Anna?

    How do you know Anna?

  2. A colleague

    Come conosci il mio collega?

    How do you know my colleague?

  3. A family connection

    Come conosci mia madre?

    How do you know my mother?

What to watch for

Knowing a person and knowing a fact can use different verbs in the target language.

Read the whole expression before replacing a detail. The natural wording may use a different order or construction from the English sentence.

Your turn

Imagine meeting people. Say this in Italian: How do you know my colleague?

Reveal a sample reply

Come conosci il mio collega?

How do you know my colleague?

Build a useful exchange

Start a friendly exchange and find a connection.

This expression in other languages

A note on speaking Italian

Use tu with friends and Lei with someone you address formally. A request with vorrei or potrebbe can soften the tone; it still helps to say what you need clearly. The examples label the situation so you can choose the appropriate relationship.

Read doubled consonants distinctly and keep the written accents. The English translation explains the intended message; Italian often chooses a different construction rather than matching each English word.

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