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"Shy" in German: schüchtern

schüchtern

Say it: SHUEKH-ternadjective/ˈʃyːçtɐn/

Shy in German is schüchtern. Say Ich bin schüchtern or Er wirkt schüchtern. A softer near-synonym is zurückhaltend, which sounds less like fear and more like reserve.

First day at a course

Am Anfang war ich ziemlich schüchtern.
At the beginning I was pretty shy.
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How to pronounce schüchtern

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SHUEKH-tern

/ˈʃyːçtɐn/

SHUEKH-tern. Ü like ee with rounded lips. Soft ch before t.

"Shy" in German: quick reference

GermanEnglish
schüchternshy

Core adjective.

ich bin schüchternI am shy

Self-description.

etwas schüchterna bit shy

Softer degree.

zurückhaltendreserved

Near alternative, less strong.

How to use schüchtern in real life

  1. 1First day at a course

    Am Anfang war ich ziemlich schüchtern.

    At the beginning I was pretty shy.

    Self-description.

  2. 2Describing a child

    Dein Sohn wirkt heute schüchtern.

    Your son seems shy today.

    Wirkt + adjective.

  3. 3Before a party

    Sei nicht so schüchtern, komm mit rein.

    Don't be so shy, come on in.

    Friendly nudge.

Mistakes English speakers make with schüchtern

Incorrect: Ich habe schüchtern.

Correct: Ich bin schüchtern.

Use sein with adjectives of personality, not haben.

Incorrect: eine schüchtern Mädchen

Correct: ein schüchternes Mädchen

Neuter noun needs schüchternes.

Good to know

Calling yourself schüchtern is common and not dramatic. In group intros, Germans often give quiet people space; a small Hallo is enough without forcing small talk.

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Before joining a big table

  1. ChatPal

    Bist du schüchtern bei vielen Leuten?

    Are you shy around lots of people?

  2. You

    Ein bisschen schüchtern, ja.

    A bit shy, yes.

  3. ChatPal

    Okay. Wir setzen uns ruhig, nichts Schüchternes nötig.

    Okay. We'll sit quietly; nothing shy required.

  4. You

    Danke. Dann fühle ich mich weniger schüchtern.

    Thanks. Then I feel less shy.

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FAQ

Common questions about "Shy" in German

How do you say I am shy?

Ich bin schüchtern.

Is zurückhaltend the same?

Close. Zurückhaltend is more reserved; schüchtern can sound shyer.

Comparative?

Schüchterner / am schüchternsten.

Shyness as a noun?

Die Schüchternheit.

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