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How to say “I'm afraid I can't make it.” in Italian

Tell someone politely that you will not be able to attend.

Purtroppo non riesco a venire.

I'm afraid I can't make it.

Acknowledge the invitation or arrangement and make the cancellation clear.

Use it in three situations

  1. Canceling a visit

    Purtroppo non riesco a venire.

    I'm afraid I can't make it.

  2. Declining an event

    Mi dispiace, stasera non riesco a venire.

    I'm afraid I can't make it tonight.

  3. Explaining a missed meetup

    Mi dispiace, venerdì non riesco a venire.

    I'm afraid I can't make it on Friday.

What to watch for

'I'm afraid' expresses regret here; a literal statement about fear can change the meaning.

Read the whole expression before replacing a detail. The natural wording may use a different order or construction from the English sentence.

Your turn

Imagine changing plans. Say this in Italian: I'm afraid I can't make it tonight.

Reveal a sample reply

Mi dispiace, stasera non riesco a venire.

I'm afraid I can't make it tonight.

Build a useful exchange

Explain a change and offer a clear next step.

This expression in other languages

A note on speaking Italian

Use tu with friends and Lei with someone you address formally. A request with vorrei or potrebbe can soften the tone; it still helps to say what you need clearly. The examples label the situation so you can choose the appropriate relationship.

Read doubled consonants distinctly and keep the written accents. The English translation explains the intended message; Italian often chooses a different construction rather than matching each English word.

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